Making Your Home Sing Monday! - Let Them Fly

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In honor of my children's first day back to school, my post today is about how to help your CHILDREN to sing. By letting them go and letting them fly.

It's not easy to allow your children to fly on their own. So often parents think that it's better to hold their children close all the time - to not allow them to do things outside the home or to experience disappointment or failure.  But by shielding our children from these things, we are hindering them rather than helping them.

Our children need to be allowed to make their own choices and make their own mistakes. They won't learn if they aren't held accountable for their actions. In fact, they will go through life finding others to blame for their problems.

This morning I had a hard time following my own advice, I'll admit. 

My 14-year-old stepson has made the choice to come life with his father and I and to go to school here. This school is about twice the size of the one he's used to - more kids, more classrooms, more teachers. He knows it's a fresh start for him, in a manner of speaking (he went to school here from kindergarten through fourth grade). But it's still frightening. This morning, I looked at him beside me in the car, he was nearly paralyzed with fear. We prayed together, and I told him I loved him and that God is in control. It was all I could do not to drive off with him and say forget it! But I also know that that wouldn't do him any good (many children thrive on homeschooling and do extremely well, some do not. My step son is one of those that do not). He needed to know that I trust him enough as an individual to make good choices in his day. He needed to know that I trusted in GOD enough to help him (SS) in his day.

I am praying that he has a wonderful day.

I am praying that he makes lots of new good friends.

I am praying that he shares his faith with at least one person this school year.

I am praying that his teachers post their homework assignments where they're supposed to.

I am praying that he does well and tries to be successful.

Even if you're a homeschooler, you can still let your children fly by involving them in activities outside the home such as gymnastics, youth group or bible study, soccer, swimming, or art or music lessons. 

Today I challenge you to think about and pray about some ways you can let your children fly this week.

God bless you all!

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Making Your Home Sing Monday! Back-To-School Edition!

It's Monday, which means it's time for 

Making Your Home Sing Monday

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One of the best ways to make your home sing is to have your meals planned and all the shopping done for the week! Need some inspiration? Here's this weeks menu!

This week we are preparing for the kids to go back to school. This year Emily will be in first grade. My 14-year-old bonus son, Garrett,  has decided to come stay with us, and he will be in 8th grade. We are currently looking for Mother's-day-out programs for Jacob (2).

I remember the excitement and anxiety that came along with returning to school. I grew up in the same district, pretty much (from 4th grade through high school graduation), so I learned new things along with everyone else in my class (like where classrooms and lockers are). Of course I worry for Garrett. Not only is he moving to another district, but he's moving to a new school with multiple stories. *yikes* Mommy tears will be flowing on the first day when I drop him off. Emily, of course, is excited. She is wondering which of her friends will be in class with her this year, and hoping for a couple specific children (as am I). We're hoping her teacher is a good, patient woman. When Emily's involved, patience is a MUST.

Along with the new school year, we will be implementing a new afternoon schedule, new rules, and a new chore list.We're keeping the focus on school and homework, so we are trying to keep the daily chores to a minimum for the kids. As long as they take care of their stuff, then the rest of the house will fall into place.

Looking forward to school supplies shopping. The only thing that bothers me, though, is that all we have out here is a Brookshire's or a Wal Mart. The nearest Staples, Best Buy, Target, or Office Max are all up to 80 miles from here. Staples and Office Max always have the best deals on school supplies, but the gas to drive there will offset any savings!

Speaking of savings, if you are like us, your child (our 14 year old) has grown out of EVERYTHING. So, this year we will be thrift-store shopping for most of his school clothes. Believe it or not, you can find some VERY nice clothes ON-THE-CHEAP at places like Goodwill or an Hospice Thrift store.Now, BUYER BEWARE - places with "Consignment" in the name are only SOMETIMES good bargains - sometimes you'll be paying more for a used item though than you would originally in the store! So, stick with "thrift" or "resale" shops that don't do a lot of consignment sales. Other places to go for cheap clothes - Old Navy (you can find jeans for less than $15 sometimes, and shirts for less than $5 often), Wal Mart (most clothes are less than $15), Target (designers like Todd Oldham and Anna Sui now have clothing lines for Target and their stuff is almost all less than $10!!), Marshall's (sometimes - not always), and Stein Mart (if you're looking for really classy clothes). Beware though, if you or your kids are a plus size, you may not be able to find clothes in the size you need, and if you CAN, you might have to pay a little extra.

My kids are not the only ones going back to school. I will be finally finishing my Bachelor of General Studies degree this year! Believe it or not, I have been going to college off and on since (GULP) 1995!!!! Yes. I have officially been in college for 15 years!! This is the year I finish. Really. I mean it.

And don't forget: setting morning routines for both you and your kids firmly into place will increase the chances of you getting out the door quickly and smoothly every morning! It may take a while to implement, but once it's done, it will be so easy to keep it up!